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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it's gone so far beyond cheating and lying at this point. I feel like you must have terrible self esteem. He is abusive, manipulative, and cruelty turn this back on you as if you are in any way to blame. You are NOT. You have not betrayed your husband or your vows. You are not in the wrong. You have a right to ask for answers, search for answers, and attempt to get whatever information will help you know the truth. You have a right to disclose your situation to anyone who can help and support you. Most importantly, though, you have a right to a life without him dragging you down. He is awful, OP. He is not the man you thought you loved. Grieve that guy - you made up a good guy in your head. I undertand missing him. But he doesn't exist. The DH you actually have had lied to you every hour of your entire marriage. Op top of that, he gaslights you, threatens you, berates you. He is awful, OP. What do you need in order to separate?[/quote]
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