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[quote=Anonymous]OP, hopefully you're realizing the trend here: you don't have all the information and what you think you know may not be close to reality. It doesn't matter what her reasons are, but you don't know their relationship or circumstances, nor should you. My MIL does the same thing in other ways, like making blatant statements about our financial situation that were absolutely false ("Well, since you haven't started saving for retirement..."). My husband confronted her because it really seemed like she was fishing for more info. While we may never know the truth, she acted surprised and insisted she was merely jumping to conclusions but did not intend to be nosy. I don't know what you think you know or what you want your role in this to be, but please be aware that if you get involved it will be perceived as a huge boundary problem. Your son marrying a woman doesn't invite you to voice your opinion any more than you would in any other social situation. You should spend some time reflecting on why you feel the need to get involved and what else is missing in your life. [/quote]
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