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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here...

Spent about 4 hours with my mom last night. The good news is that she said she could handle/ was willing to handle having the OW/SO in attendance.
But as I could have imagined she doesn't want that and it would be hurtful for her. She also said that she doesn't feel like inviting my dads SO is necessarily the high road. That being said she doesn't seem to think my dad would stand me up. The one thing I was surprised about was she seemed against a destination wedding even though she did one herself. She said I had a much better chance of him attending if it was close by.

At this point I think I am just going forward with planning the wedding with my fiance issue the invites and let the chips fall where they may. I will probably make concessions down the line as I do not want to alienate myself from my father but this is my wedding. I've got a solid candidate to keep the peace between them. But If he doesn't come that's ultimately his choice. I can still have a happy wedding and enjoy it with those that want to be there.[/quote]

You are entirely too reasonable to be on DcUM. Get outta here before we corrupt you! Seriously, good luck to you and your fiancé.[/quote]

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