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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If OW comes, it will turn into an event all about her presence.  Imagine having to overhear your father introducing her to people who haven't heard the news yet.  People will be pointing and whispering.  Your mother will be miserable.  This will absolutely be the drama.  Is that what you want to remember about your wedding?  He may resent you now but you and your wife will resent him much longer if he hijacks your wedding with his naïveté and selfishness. [/quote]This will only happen if the OP and his bride keep worrying about it.  Nobody really cares about all this crap.  Put the "plus one" invitations in the mail and don't have another conversation about it.  Focus on more important things.[/quote]

Does anyone else get the impression that we have one or two "other women" posting on this thread?[/quote]

I posted the "nobody cares" comment, and I can assure you that I am not an "other woman."  Seriously, if all you people are so into blame games and finger pointing and all this nonsense, who would want you at the wedding anyway.  Hell, I just attended a relative's wedding where the groom's mom showed up with her new boyfriend and his dad showed up with his new HUSBAND!  And you know what?  It was a blast - because NOBODY CARED![/quote]

umm- that is TOTALLY different- their marriage ended b/c the dad was gay! Not b/c he couldn't keep his fly zipped and his vows. no-one cares in that circumstance b/c its not anyone's fault  . This is different.
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