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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you may think you are very noble, but you're not.

The co-dependency model you've set up with your family of origin is alarming and worsening.  You dishing them money, gift-cards, free housing, free food, and now $1000s of cash is just enabling them to do nothing with their lives

Your husband does not have the same flippant, overly "generous" values as you do with money you both work damn hard for.

Get a trustee who works with mildly "disabled" clients to take this over. And then stop siphoning off your family's money.  Your family is you, your husband and your 3 kids.  Everyone else is doing just fine.

I also suggest you get counseling for your cognitive dissonance, co-dependency, lying/hiding about money things from your husband, and enabling because after you do it for your adult siblings, mother and father you will be doing it for your children.  Their whole lives.

Try to motivate people to better themselves, not shove houses, cars and cash at them each week.

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