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[quote=Anonymous]Even though your DH income is both yours and his, and he is very happy giving you and kids more than enough money to spend, I don't think he wants to spend the money carelessly, like there's no tomorrow. Like you said, he rarely spends it with his friends. He wants you to be happy staying home with kids, but doesn't mean that you can spend the family money recklessly. Spend your own money, be generous with your own money instead of your family $$$. If you have agreement about personal spending money for each of you, then probably you can use that $$ to give your brother. Sacrifice you own portion of spending money for your brother, rather than having personal spending money and asking for more money to send for your brother. So instead of using the personal money for new clothes or bags etc, give it to your brother. Have you even thought about what if he doesn't bring that much $$ anymore or sick, would you be OK then. Would it be OK with you if suddenly he needs to give you less money monthly so he can give ii to your ILs.[/quote]
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