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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's definitely a mismatch in terms of dating value. I am 99.9% certain OP could not get quality dates/sex anywhere as easy as the girl he's seeing can get with the opposite gender. OP's girl knows this also.

OP - give us more info. Are you in biglaw or in another highly remunerative field/position? How was your dating life in high school, college, and in your 20's?

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Op here. [b]I am established - work at a finance company ( make  around300k/net). I own my own home, cars, etc. [/b]

I am more of a monogamous person, but I had my share of misguided deeds. I had 6 serious partners, and dated a few others for a few months. I've had about 3 one night stands. In total, I've slept with 12 women. I do have some women chase me just for the lifestyle I can provide them with.

I've had sex with this current women 5-6 times. Used a condom every time. I've never said she was mine and I'm not being possessive. I was just hurt. I agree I should of had the ta lk before now. It was my mistake, and potentially my loss. [/quote]

'your' girl definitely likes this part and will not want to let it go. Given the rest of what you've written, it's pretty surprising that you are hung up over this. Cut your losses and move on. It's her loss that she didn't bring up exclusivity. Pick up the dinner check only if you plan to tell her you do not want to see her again and are moving on. [/quote]

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