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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think your gut is telling you the answer to your questions here. The longer you let this type of behavior go un-discussed the farther down the road he will go with it. You have the right to have boundaries and he shouldn't be testing to see where those boundaries are. It is not affectionate behavior to see how far someone you care about will let you go. Ideally, he would carefully consider your feelings before forming attachments to other females. No one is saying guys cannot have female friends, but spending $90 on a "friend" at night at a bar is a date. Don't let him or anyone else make you feel bad for thinking otherwise. You should understand that if he doesn't like you clearly articulating your boundaries, he will likely take it "private" ... but that was a clear possibility even if you say nothing. Just remember ... a loving spouse will always put your emotional comfort ahead of any wish he might have for companionship at a bar at night. [/quote]
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