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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine your DH has struck up friendships with the staff at a neighborhood bookstore that he frequents. A lot of the staff happen to be young women.  What's your comfort level, roughly?

1. he goes to the store frequently and they chat
2. he has exchanged phone numbers and they text
3. he meets up with them socially (without you present)
4. he invites them over to your home

Or some other "level" I am not articulating here.

Where are you cool with it?  Where are you irked?  [/quote]

My DH frequents a local coffee shop and chats with the workers there. When we are out walking, they have beeped and waved. He has gotten to know them, so on one of our weekend morning walks, said he wanted all of us to walk to the coffee shop so his acquaintances could meet us (his wife and daughter). If he decided he wanted more of a friendship with them, he would ask me how I felt about having them over, or he would ask me if he could have a night "off" kid/home duty so he could grab a drink with them.

The thing is, I would be a part of the loop. He wanted me to meet them. Is your DH doing all of this secretively? It would be very, very strange if DH had any of them over to our house when I wasn't home, and without mentioning it to me. [/quote]

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