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[quote=Anonymous]I'll speak as the LDDW. I watched the Ted talk linked upthread. I am one of those unlucky people she talks about who after 2 kids needs arousal before desire. DH is HD but will not initiate. I am totally willing to "just do it" but have asked for more initiation. He can't or won't. Like OP, this makes me sad that he just doesn't care and frustrated that I am willing to do my part but he isn't. I am not talking about duty or charity here. I have expressed what I need (as he has with more frequency) and that need is being ignored. And now the Ted Talk lady putting science behind my perspective makes me feel better and worse and the same time. Like, the research says I'm not crazy or just being a bitch as some rude pps on this thread want to suggest. there's a solution out there, and I've given Dh the keys to solve it. He just won't use them. So, more burden for me to shoulder. Did that answer your question, OP? [/quote]
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