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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm glad I'm not the only one with these occasional thoughts.  There was a time when the thought of DH dying would have killed me- I wouldn't have been able to imagine life without him.  But our marriage has had some highs and some real lows.  Divorce would be really tough financially.  If he were to die, I'd collect life insurance and life would be a breeze.  Of course I would't want our kids to grow up without a father (but sometimes when he's a jerk- I think they'd be better off without him).  By saying this- I would never, ever, in a million years do anything to put DH's life at risk.  And there are also times I feel incredibly guilty for thinking this.

My father died when I was young, leaving my mom a widow.  She's also been divorced and will say divorce was tougher than death- and [b]she still loved my dad[/b].

For all you judgy posters- I'm sure you have thoughts you'd never act on and fantasies you may or may not really want to happen.[/quote]

Do you think she still loves him?[/quote]

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