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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a Korean adoptee. When I reunited with my birth family (mother and brothers- father is long dead), I found out that my own father and his mother basically stole me from my b-mom. Yes. They told her that my twin sister and I had died during delivery, that the hospital had already cremated us, and they took us to the adoption agency instead. When I basically said that this was quite an unbelievable story/thing to do to one's own wife, my b-family told us that our mother and her MIL (my dad's mom) did not get along. B-grandma used to beat our mother and another DIL and drag them around the house by their hair. I asked why our b-father allowed this and they said he was very loyal to his mother. Many a Korean has told me that it was very common for MILs and DILs to hate each other. Now, I'm ok with having been adopted. But this is some f-ed up shit in terms of Asian family values. All of it.[/quote]
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