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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: I'm not playing hard to get. I'm just want to get to know someone well before sleeping with him. I don't want to sleep with someone too soon and then find out later he's a jerk or doesn't like me. Oh poor you. You sound like a teenager. No relationship lasts forever and you're not entitled to any specific length of a relationship, be it long or short. You're lucky if this guy sticks around for another date, with the way you're treating him. If you treated me this way, I'd never talk to you again. If you're not attracted to him, find someone else's time to waste. Ignore this person. Not having sex by the third date is mistreating someone? Give me a break. I'm sorry, OP. This sucks, but clearly this guy was looking for sex, and recognized you were looking for more. It would have been worse if you slept together, then he disappeared. He isn't the guy for you. Seriously, talk about entitled. Men here really feel that they are owed sex after a third date?? ??? They are entitled to accept no sex after a third date as a lack of interest from the woman. Um, ok, but then they might be missing out on sleeping with a woman who might have slept with him by date five or eight. Who thought up this third date rule anyway? I think it was a man trying to make women feel like sleeping with someone on the third date was the norm.[/quote] It is normal. By third date its time to step it up or cut bait. If we are not sleeping with each other by the third, there is no chemistry. As for missing out...really you are some much more special vs someone else? Most likely you are just missing out on someone with a lot of hang ups.[/quote]
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