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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its no wonder so many of you are miserable in your marriages. Both of us have preferences about levels of fitness and personal grooming. Of course our decision is our own but we certainly are not dismissive of what each of finds attractive.

Good luck, many of you need it.[/quote]

So your husband prefers you with a fuscia pixie cut, turquoise contact lenses, in thigh high boots and fishnets. He sees you in yoga pants and feels nauseated. No nightgowns either.

Are you accommodating him because it's what he finds attractive?

No woman should have to mitigate her own

Wow, a very intellectual arguement and poorly spelled. Way to go.

I do shave my pits. And my legs. And my undercarriage. I get my hair done regularly, and I have a drawer filled with sexy lingerie that I wear. But - I don't do it "for" my DH. I do it for me. I do it because I lovefeeling sexy and turning him on, I do it because he makes me feel sexy every day, regardless if I am in pajamas with a snotty cold, in yoga pants and a ponytail, or in candlelight wearing black lace with my hair tumbled all around. I am not there for his enjoyment. I am there to share in the enjoyment together.

The fact that so many on this board can't understand the difference just shows me why there seems to be so many unhappily sexless marriages out there. What makes a woman feel sexy is being happy in her own skin, at all times. Needing to play a part to meet her partner's exacting standards undermines that. [/quote]

You sound insane and long winded. Do you jabber all this nonsense in your husband's ear as well?[/quote]

If you're not actually going to add anything to the discussion other than hurl personal insults, why post at all? Do you gaslight your partner as well?

Here's how fruitful discussion goes:

Person 1: I believe X. Here is why.
Person 2: I dis/agree. I don't support x because.. Y is what I believe. Here is where I feel you X argument is flawed. 
Person 1: interesting. I never considered it that way. I still think X is correct, but Y is certainly a consideration. [/quote]

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