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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its no wonder so many of you are miserable in your marriages. Both of us have preferences about levels of fitness and personal grooming. Of course our decision is our own but we certainly are not dismissive of what each of finds attractive.

Good luck, many of you need it.[/quote]

So your husband prefers you with a fuscia pixie cut, turquoise contact lenses, in thigh high boots and fishnets. He sees you in yoga pants and feels nauseated. No nightgowns either.

Are you accommodating him because it's what he finds attractive?

No woman should have to mitigate her own happiness in her own skin to make her partner happy. A haircut or hair color doesnt define a person.

Sure, you can have a preference, but for me, this getting caught up in superficial trappings is really bizarre to me. So she cuts her hair short for a year? Two? Five? Does that define her differently as a short haired person? Is she less of a mother? Is her vagina less wonderful?

I'm sorry, this post is really confounding me because I really don't get it.

And as a post note - gentlemen, if you are so desperate for passionate and regular sex with your wives, DON'T put in their heads that you find them anything but irresistible. If you think that you suggesting a hairstyle isn't a big deal, trust me when I say many women will then worry about the other things you DONT say. So you don't like her hair - how do you feel about her stretch marks, saggy boobs, cellulite, the fact she didn't shave her legs for a week, the chin hair she's praying you didn't notice, her chapped lips, the spinach she had between her teeth on Tuesday. [/quote]

[b]Of course you are confounded. I bed you don't even shave your pits.[/quote]

If not shaving your pits means a person is confounded, then that explains a lot about you. [/b]  [/quote]

Wow, a very intellectual arguement and poorly spelled. Way to go.

I do shave my pits. And my legs. And my undercarriage. I get my hair done regularly, and I have a drawer filled with sexy lingerie that I wear. But - I don't do it "for" my DH. I do it for me. I do it because I lovefeeling sexy and turning him on, I do it because he makes me feel sexy every day, regardless if I am in pajamas with a snotty cold, in yoga pants and a ponytail, or in candlelight wearing black lace with my hair tumbled all around. I am not there for his enjoyment. I am there to share in the enjoyment together.

The fact that so many on this board can't understand the difference just shows me why there seems to be so many unhappily sexless marriages out there. What makes a woman feel sexy is being happy in her own skin, at all times. Needing to play a part to meet her partner's exacting standards undermines that. [/quote]

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