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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: husband probably feels trapped and like he can't trust you. Solution? Give him an out. Tell him you were irresponsible for not taking BC. Your actions were meant to be deceitful even though they were. If he really hates life then tell him he can divorce you and you won't pursue child support and won't go after his money (if any) as a show that you really did not mean to make him feel trapped. It's totally a bluff move, but it's extreme enough where he at least can actually make a decision about going forward. Pretty sure he will chose to be with you and raise child, but now it's more a decision he's made vs being forced into it.[/quote]

You don't make a bluff move about something this important.  OP and her DH need marriage counseling, period. [/quote]

Why not? If the guy actually agrees to divorce or reconciliation then you at least know just how severe the issue is. They are going to counseling anyway, never said don't do that. I'm just putting myself in the guys shoes. As husband I would be pretty shocked at a proposal such as that. If I agreed to it then 1) I really don't want to be with her  and 2) I'm a huge jerk and I don't deserve them anyway. Also would be a dosey of a story to try to explain to folks or future love interests.  [/quote]

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