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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: husband probably feels trapped and like he can't trust you. Solution? Give him an out. Tell him you were irresponsible for not taking BC. Your actions were meant to be deceitful even though they were. If he really hates life then tell him he can divorce you and you won't pursue child support and won't go after his money (if any) as a show that you really did not mean to make him feel trapped. It's totally a bluff move, but it's extreme enough where he at least can actually make a decision about going forward. Pretty sure he will chose to be with you and raise child, but now it's more a decision he's made vs being forced into it.[/quote]

What if says, OK.?[/quote]

Yea, PP whose husband didn't use a condom here. If he had calmly told me it was okay to walk out, instead of begging me with tears and flowers and threats to contest the divorce, I would have jumped ship during the worst of it all when I felt angriest. If you make someone that kind of offer, you had better be ready for them to take you up on it.[/quote]

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