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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I've been there too. I thought he'd get it, grow up, see that I was doing everything and he needed to pitch in. He had grown up in a culture where women do everything and take all blame, and he acted like a visiting emperor at home. So there I was, with three kids, a job, totally doing all childcare and household stuff, and he would throw trash on the floor rather than take out the full trash can, and throw tantrums about everything and whine that I didn't give him enough attention. You know that's where you're headed, and you need to stop that train now before it goes any farther. It gets horribly hard when kids enter the picture.[/quote]

The culture excuse is such bullshit, I'm married to a Saudi Arab for ffs, and the man is a wizard with full trashcans, babies with soiled diapers, dirty dishes and all man chores on top of that. I guarantee you anything that somewhere in that country or culture men are taking out the trash even as I type this. Don't blame the culture for indulgent upbringings or individual assholery.[/quote]

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