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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This would piss me off so much I would refuse to baptize the kid.[/quote]

That's not an option, but I do wonder what would happen if I had him baptized without anyone knowing....[/quote]

If this is op, now you're acting like your dh and making decisions unilaterally.  Bad, bad, bad. It won't solve anything. Your ils are a nightmare. We all know special snowflakes and this is what they look like in old age.

I've btdt with my ils who are now completely cut off. Even though they are well off, they are the cheapest, stingiest people I've ever met and constantly made demands upon dh and I for things that were not our responsibility. Of course if affected our wedding, kids baptisms, home purchases etc.  I was screwed until my dh stood up to them and started being a husband and father. You are in the same boat. I'm glad you don't live near them but what kind of crazy thinking leads your dh to think he owes them because he dared to grow up and go on with his life. You don't have enough saved to be this generous with them. They are taking money away from your child. What selfish jerks.

How long have you been with dh? I'm curious about his attitudes towards you and if he thinks you are equal partners in the marriage. This is such a big deal that I would give dh a choice. Marital counseling or my bags would be packed. [/quote]

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