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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Some of it is probably that the husbands or other partners (second husbands, boyfriends -- as the husbands die off -- etc) ARE better. Some of it is also probably that the kids are growing/grown up and the wife isn't constantly tired from being the default parent anymore. Seriously, before I became a mother I had NO idea why mothers had low libidos. Pre-kids my DH and I were well matched on the SD front. Post kids, even though he's a good dad...he doesn't shoulder 50% of the parenting burden (he can't in some ways, not blaming) and I am much more physically and emotionally tired than he is. One our kids are older, I am SO looking forward to a libido bounce back![/quote] 1. Reduce your overall parenting burden (as in "do less kid stuff") such that nobody is too tired for a normal/regular sex life. 2. You waiting until "kids are older" is quite selfish, and don't be surprised if he's moved on (sexually speaking) from you by then[/quote]
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