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My feeling about all this - especially for all the &quot;just figure out what is wrong with your marriage&quot; types: just spit it out: you don't want to fuck us any longer. Don't play games - be an adult, own up and admit what you want/don't want and face the consequences.  Sounds an awful lot like what they preach about cheaters, doesn't it?[/quote]

I agree. I am the DW who believes that sex is an act of caring, love and fulfilling the basic needs of your partner.   I also think that people who do not WANT to have sex with their spouses are not attracted to them.  This is different from people who CANNOT have sex with their spouses - that can be due to medical or circumstantial reasons.

Sex is a pleasurable, comforting and relaxing activity. Even the plain vanilla kind. It is a great way to strengthen the marital bond.

People may live in a pleasant sexless marriage for companionship and security, but it is like having a roommate you get along with. In such a marriage if cheating has not occurred it is mainly from inertia and lack of opportunity. It certainly is not a testament to any great romantic love within marriage.[/quote]

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