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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce is a more honest, respectful solution than cheating and blaming your spouse for it. [/quote]

PP here.  Respectfully disagree that divorce is the better way in all occasions.  I also have an AP and our relationship allows sanity for me without getting divorced.  [/quote]

You are being dishonest with yourself and living a lie. Give your wife the respect she deserves and all the knowledge you hold, including the lengths you've gone to get the affection you seek. She may divorce you, or she may decide to work on the marriage. Confronted with this decision several years ago, I chose the latter and we're a happier family now. Your wife deserves to be a part of this conversation. You are fooling yourself if you think you've really tried to express your needs. Cheating is the ultimate form of passive aggression, and cheaters, by definition, are not good communicators. My DH would be the first to admit this, though we've both become much better at truly hearing and honoring each other through this. You've chosen the most cowardly avenue possible and continue to justify your behavior to yourself. If and when your wife and kids discover your affair, you won't be able to use your logic to escape their disillusionment in the man you've chosen to be. Statistically, cheaters rarely imagine the damage they inflict on others. They truly believe they are preserving their marriages by getting some on the side. This is not a new or enlightened argument. Just a really selfish and cowardly one.[/quote]

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