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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm the same age as you. I find that I fare much better in person. I've met guys while DC is with me, while hanging with friends, and through work. My married friends have husbands that have tried to match me with their friends as well. Online was hit or miss for me. My best guy friend once volunteered to look at my profile years ago. His tweaking lead to alot more hits. He said I didn't have enough full body pics. I have a nice figure but wrongly assumed that more than a few photos would attract guys looking for sex. In fact, it was the opposite. My modesty translated online to having something to hide (like 30 extra pounds, for example). I also talked about ish men didn't care about, according to him.lol

I don't know why single dads are suggested as if they're everywhere. Most "single dads" have visitation every other weekend. 90% of the guys I've met have been single/no kids. I think you should consider guys closer in age to you as well. It's great that you're willing to go to 45, but how about 28-45? Recently,  I told a friend that I'm no longer asking a guy for his age. I've met soooo many twentysomethings and ruled them out solely based on age.

How long have you been single?    [/quote]

I have been single for a year. Can't even imagine being with someone who is under 30. It is impossible for men that young to know anything about parenthood and what comes with it. A guy at my gym approached and asked me out - handsome, in great shape and pleasant but way too young for me. Why not just have fun and get laid, right? I would like to go out with someone who can [b]at least seem to be looking for a serious long term relationship[/b]. [/quote]

Good luck to you! Where did you meet? :)

I don't blame you.  I'm a man and having a FWB would not work for me because it would just remind me that I want to connect with someone on more levels.  Did meet someone recently and we are taking it slow but definitely potential, and we have both expressed that.  Both single parents so there is hope....[/quote][/quote]

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