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[quote=Anonymous]I feel for you, OP. My in-laws did this for the first 18 months of our first child's life. They meant well, they wanted to spend time with us and the baby, but it was so, so hard. Especially in the beginning when all I wanted was to be able to figure out how to breastfeed without an audience. Plus they always tried to convince us to go out so they could babysit. In those early weeks I was so tired and nursing so often I couldn't have left even if I desperately wanted to. I would just honestly and simply say the frequent visits are hard on you, not because you don't love them, but because you are struggling with establishing a routine. Ask if you can put them up in a hotel but say they are welcome to spend all morning and afternoon at the house.[/quote]
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