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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's peculiar that "having respect for yourself" is often code for "acting in conformity with someone else's more conservative moral code." [/quote]

I think it's peculiar that people think they should be able to escape the consequences for their bad behavior by attacking those who call them out on it.

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Why do you think having sex is "bad" behavior? Does it make Baby Jesus cry or something?[/quote]

There is a difference between having sex and getting drunk and hooking up with random guys at work.

Don't be deliberately obtuse.[/quote]

Please articulate the non-religious reason why sex while intoxicated with short-term or one-time relationships is inherently bad. For whatever it's worth, I'll say up front that I'll find rationales that rely on the subjective opinions of third parties to be less than persuasive inasmuch as the "badness" could easily be attributed to those third parties and not the drunk sex itself. [/quote]

It shows - as I said - a lack of self-respect. Getting drunk by itself shows a lack of respect for your body. Do you have no clue about the short or long term effects of alcohol on people? You think that a hangover is a sign that your body was getting the nutrients it needs? Getting stupid drunk is something stupid people do.

Additionally, hooking up with people that you don't even know or necessarily like is also showing a lack of self-respect. This isn't choosing sex because you are a sexual person. This is choosing sex because you are stupid drunk and have impaired judgment.

You cannot put words in my mouth. I have never said that having sex is per se bad behavior. I said getting drunk and hooking up shows a lack of self-respect. Again, stop being deliberately obtuse.[/quote]

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