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[quote=Anonymous]Man here,

You said you fell out of love with her. That's totally different than just not being satisfied. For that reason, I say serve the papers. Give her a little more than we've grown apart though.

I was in your situation and I talked to my ex-wife about it. She begged me to stay, said we'd figure it out and all of that. The first talk was at year 3, the second at year 5, and then by the time we'd gotten to year 9 I'd given up. I realized that too much time had passed for me to leave. I stayed, but she only got 50% of what she used to get romantically. It wasn't a choice, just happened. I was phoning that side of it in, but I was 100% there as a husband and dad.

She eventually saw through it at year 10 and she fell apart. She said she felt like she ruined my life. I tried to convince her otherwise, but it didn't work. She actually ended up cheating with some random person. A big part of me feels like she did it just to give me the final push to leave.

Long story, but just go. [/quote]

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