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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I knew my husband was feeling rejected,but wasn't about to have sex if it was going to involve me faking being interested.[/quote]

Overall it is good to hear that you aware of, and working on, your low drive.
But I must say the sentence above I find to be textbook sexual laziness.
In marriage, I do many things that I'm not especially "interested" in doing.
Why do I? Because those things are important to my partner.

Instead of allowing your low drive to dictate your sexlife, consider this.
Talk with your husband and agree on a "good" sexual frequency.
Let's say this is twice per week. 
Since your own sex drive might not be sufficient to sustain a 2X per week frequency, 
you may well have to "fake" some interest. 
That may sound bad to you but consider what happens if you don't.
Instead of a "good" frequency, sex becomes a "less than good" frequency.
While you might not be too affected (or even aware) this is happening, I assure you H deeply affected.

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