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[quote=Anonymous][quote] wish we could all just stay on topic. I need tips on getting full custody of my child. His mistress was ruthless when we spoke. He was planning on getting her pregnant. He told her they were going to live together. She seemed perfectly ok with getting pregnant by a married man.[/quote]

OP, you've been given the best tips, which is to drop the fantasy that you'll get full custody because your husband cheated on you and is generally a scumbag. the best thing you can do right now is get an advantageous divorce agreement that spells out child support, custody, etc. It doesn't matter if he was planning on banging 33 girls a night--he is not an unfit parent and he wants to be involved in his child's life and he will be, so you best get used to the idea and work it out to your best advantage.

And if you care about the well being of your child, which I assume you do, the very very very best thing you can do (and perhaps the hardest) is to figure out how to peacefully co-parent with your ex. I have seen the product of a child whose parents divorced young and could never drop the anger and it has devastated this child in numerous ways. You need to realize that your marriage is over, that you need to find a way to deal with your anger and pain in therapy and not in an unrewarding and nasty custody battle that will cost you endless $$ and not end up getting you what you want and poison your co-parenting relationship.

I can understand the feelings of betrayal and anger, but you cannot choose to cut your ex out of his child's life. You had the choice to procreate with him or not, but what's done is done. Move on and get your revenge by living well. [/quote]

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