Reply to So I contacted my husband's Mistress

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "So I contacted my husband's Mistress"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As you were separated during your pregnancy, he moved I back in when baby was born, and this affair has been going on for "years", I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you likely got pregnant while  you were separated  and thought doing so would keep him from her. He tried for a while, maybe, out of a sense of duty like many men do, to create a family but as the relationship wasn't great to start with, having a baby wasn't enough to make it work.

And now, just like before when you got pregnant, you are using your child as a pawn to control that man. And it won't work.

Btw, the woman is not a whore. She has nothing to do with your relationship with your husband. Put blame where blame is due.

[/quote]

You sound like an Other Woman, PP. Big time. And I also think you're the author of a lot of the nastiest posts on this thread.

OP, most people don't think like this. You're going to get your bitter Other Women who hate you for being married to "their" guys when they're not. You're going to have your bitter ex-DH's who hear that you want to keep your child from his/her father and think that's an evil thing to do and will absolutely pound you for it. You'll have your melodramatic posters who like to imagine sordid stories about OPs and then project their overheated imaginary stories onto you and assume they're fact. And then you'll have your pragmatists who feel for you and your point of view, but are trying to explain that a) the courts won't factor in the fact that he's cheating bastard in the custody decision, b) a child needs his/her father as long as he's not abusive, and c) he doesn't really sound like the kind of guy who's going to fight you much for custody anyway. Good luck. Focus on the finances, don't be vindictive about the child no matter how hurt and furious you feel, and maybe see a therapist to help you work through all this. Good luck.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics