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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As you were separated during your pregnancy, he moved I back in when baby was born, and this affair has been going on for "years", I'm going to go out on a limb and assume [b]you likely got pregnant while  you were separated[/b]  and thought doing so would keep him from her. He tried for a while, maybe, out of a sense of duty like many men do, to create a family but as the relationship wasn't great to start with, having a baby wasn't enough to make it work.

And now, just like before when you got pregnant, you are using your child as a pawn to control that man. And it won't work.

Btw, the woman is not a whore. She has nothing to do with your relationship with your husband. Put blame where blame is due.

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Takes two to tango. Why would OP's husband sleep with his wife while they were separated if he didn't understand the risk?[/quote]

I agree, but I also don't think a horny man's brain will default to the "pregnancy as revenge/entrapment" idea, especially if his partner or previous partner has always "looked after" birth control by being on the pill, etc. ANY one going through a separation should insist upon double birth control until things are worked out, IMHO, but most people aren't that swift to realize that a lot of children are created out of exactly these kinds of situations.

I've seen it personally at least four times in my life, and I think in general I'm surrounded by a lot of pretty normal, educated folk who wouldn't play these kinds of games. But they do. [/quote]

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