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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow a lot of you don't find Asian men attractive, neither do I honestly.  Wonder if it is because they don't seem very masculine.[/quote]

Yes, it's cultural. [/quote]

Cultural to be wimps? Why is that? :( [/quote]

They are raised to be smart, industrious, rule followers. Working hard and playing by the rules isn't sexy in our culture. (I don't know enough about other cultures to say whether this is universal or just some sort of pathology of the American woman.) [/quote]

PP here who's white married to an Asian. I guess people who like white men in America are equating "sexy" with "macho"? In my experience, white men are so full of macho bullshit that they are next to impossible to be with. My DH is very masculine in a way that doesn't require him to posture and act like a ridiculous, insecure masculine caricature like most white men I've dated. Because it's so "masculine" to insult women, drive super fast, play video games all the time, and pretend to hate being in a stable relationship.  :roll: Ugh, just thinking of my experiences dating white guys makes me groan -- it was like dating 30-year-olds who were perpetually mentally 14.[/quote]

What kind of white guys were you dating?  If you're dating educated, UMC white men you shouldn't have these issues.  Maybe the desirable ones weren't into you (which would explain you having to marry an Asian guy)[/quote]

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