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[quote=Anonymous]I guess my concern is this. There is always a co-mingling of discipline with abuse. Why is hitting assumed to be associated with cursing and anger and a lack of control? There is a difference. Maybe because abusive behavior that is is in public and out of control are the only forms of "hitting" you are seeing - so some of you assume it is only done that way? Perhaps there is a misconception on the effectiveness on discipline because an effective positive example has not been seen. No well disciplined child hates or resents or pulls away from their parent for it. For me, this is a consideration about spanking as a form of discipline -- NOT ABUSE. ABUSE IS WRONG. What OP described was abuse! The question is - where does it become abuse?[/quote]
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