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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Chat up the roommate about the movie..."Hey, Sam, I heard you saw About Last Night, should I go see it?"

Or just decide if you believe your boyfriend or not. My guess is that he is lying but when I was in my twenties, I would have wanted to believe it too. 
The fact that he was silent after telling you about it tells me that he is lying. If it were the truth, he would have gone about your dinner as if nothing was wrong, instead he acted differently.

We are all just trying to tell you to be careful, trust your instincts and make sure that you are being treated well by this guy. [/quote]

OP here. I get this and it's still on my mind but what proof do I have? He has given me zero reason to ever be jealous or have any suspicions. I think his silence was because he was upset. He thought I was snooping and that I didn't tell him earlier when I found it. I waited a couple hours to process everhthing. I'm not trying to excuse his behavior. [b]It's just that typically, I would dump a guy over this, even without proof but he really is the one for me.[/b][/quote]

Oh boy. It sounds like you really want to believe him. This guy has you where he wants you. Do you go around putting random papers in your pocket before checking what they are? Honey I've BTDT with a cheater, they will make up outrageous lies and then gaslight you or turn things around on you (like how he conveniently accused you of snooping). Do you expect him to tell you the truth if he WAS with another girl? Of course he wouldn't, unless he wanted to be rid of you. [/quote]

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