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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - he has adamantly refused to let me have access to his email.  He keeps his two home computers all locked up.  I think he was surprised I got the phone records.  He wouldn't even agree to "ground rules" about the phone.  I said  you need to leave the phone out in the open with the ringer on..and if you go out to garage to work on a project, leave phone in house.  he didn't like these "rules" and said I was controlling him.  But, I said to him, if you are really and truly working on our marriage, we need to rebuild trust.  He doesn't seem very willing to do anything to prove himself re: trust issues right now.  But he did apologize again and tell me, I have done what you asked; I have cut off all contact.  (He called her after I called her and he apologized to her for my call - which I told him was ridicululous - he should care more about my feelings than her feelings - [b]and he says he told her he was "oversharing" with her and he knows she was just being a supportive friend but that he needed to stop this now.[/b]) [/quote]

Oh my god, that is the biggest line of bull I've ever heard. A simple supportive friendship doesn't require the need for secrecy. Even supportive friends don't do things like talk on the phone constantly, sneak out to call each other, etc. Wow, he really thinks he is pulling the wool over your eyes. Is he? OP, do you really believe the lines he is feeding you, or have you realized yet that he is in the middle of a full blown, powerful affair?

I'm so sorry. I really feel for you and wish we were friends so I could offer support.[/quote]

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