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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, so you can't call your husband to make sure he's on his way home or for whatever reason you need to but he's totally ok with Jane calling him anywhere , anytime?  Ask your lousy therapist this next time. [/quote]

OP here - thank you for this!  This is such an excellent point.  I just had another discussion with DH and told him this.  He agreed with this point and said he will make sure he is available to talk to me whenever I want to call him.  I said - why am a I controlling bitch if I call you on your commute home??? And I only do that every once in a while and yet, you called "Jane" at all hours - inlcuding weekend when you would sneak out to the store or garage.  He totally got my point. [/quote]

OP, I really feel for you and am sorry you are going through this. You are in strong denial, though. Whether he got your point about the phone calls or not seems irrelevant to me. Whether he gets your point about any of this is irrelevant. [u]The only thing that is relevant is that he is having an affair. [/u][b]

They think they are in love. Do you get that? I would be surprised if it hadn't turned physical already, considering they work and live near each other. They are in love and talking constantly -- there is NO way they are only meeting for coffee every once in awhile.

If you had a way of accessing his emails, I think you would be shocked at what you'd find. I guarantee you they are exchanging I love you's and talking about their future together. [/quote]

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