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[quote=Anonymous]OP again, to reiterate what a PP said - we are deeply in debt from medical bills, him being unemployed etc. Things would be a lot more tolerable if we didn't have all of this to deal with. However, we are never going to to get out of this hole on my income alone. I don't need some fancy lifestyle, I just want to be able to cover expenses, save some money, save for retirement/college and actually have a home. Did I mention that we had to sell our home as a short sale?...does that change anyone else's mind about how I feel? Would anyone else in my shoes be OK and have compassion for their husband after going through all of this? I doubt it. He has agreed to go to counseling, but who knows what will happen. I think its worth trying but I don't have my hopes up. DC adores him and it would be devastating to him. But I am really at my wits end. I don't know what else to do except hope that a counselor can help him see that what he's doing (or not doing) may possibly break up his family.[/quote]
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