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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the most benign sort of cheating a man can do.  Sleazy, but there's no threat to your relationship.  He fessed up and is really sorry.  It was one time.  He wore a condom.  Get past it.

Feminism has created a delusion that male cheating is like female cheating.  Male cheating is not really a big deal because it doesn't need to affect the relationship; it's usually just for sex.  Men's job is to provide for the family.  If he's doing that, a little sex on the side is no big deal.  It doesn't affect his love for wife and kids.

Female cheating, on the other hand, is the ultimate betrayal.  First, there the risk of paternity fraud.  And women are the gatekeepers of morality.  The woman teaching your kids right from wrong can't be sleeping around and literally letting other men inside of her.  That's nasty and a testament to her character.[/quote]

This would be hilarious if written in jest; however, I think you're serious so it's just very sad. Read what you've written and see how ridiculous it is. [/quote]

I read it again, and it's even more true the second time.  And any man with testes (and any woman if she's truly honest with herself) agrees.  A man's job is not to be chaste, it's to protect and provide for his family.  A woman's job is to raise and nurture the children, and part of that position is the task of upholding the moral standards.  If anything, a man who cheats is a more desirable man, because other women want him.[/quote]

Seriously, this is one of the stupidest things I have read on this board, and I have been reading stupid things on this board for 5 years now.  A man's job? A man's job is to live up to his promises.  Being a responsible partner in your marriage does not only apply to the woman.  Having a penis doesn't give anyone license to screw around.  Your condescending attitude toward women is only matched by your contempt for all men that you have such low expectations for them and such base assumptions about their characters.  There are actually mature and enlightened individuals of both genders who have integrity.  Lots of men think that fidelity on the part of both spouses actually is essential to protect their families.

Moreover, it is the job of every parent - not just females -  to raise his or her children.  It is beyond reprehensible to advocate punting all responsibility for the child's character to the mother.  You think kids don't get that the mother is being disrespected by the dad?  You realize that the children are far more likely to grow up to be serial adulterers themselves.

Also, if you really think that cheating makes you somehow more desirable - well, then you are one fucked-up person.  Hope you grow up someday.[/quote]

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