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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Showed this thread to my proudly openly gay brother.

He said it was odd that the posters who are calling gay actually seem more reasonable about it.  He said that the people who are going out of their way to insist that certain conduct was not gay seem to be in denial – like they are afraid of the label. He said that these people seem to be buying into the negative connotation more than the seemingly “close minded” people who only see gay and straight.

He also said that he sure he knows some of your DHs.   :wink:
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That's interesting.  I showed it to my gay BIL and he says a few homosexual experiences aren't enough to make one 'gay'.  He said that if people have attraction to only one sex, that's homosexual.  If they're attracted to both sexes, they're bisexual.  He also said it's not unusual for a person to be bisexual at one time and then change to either gay or heterosexual.  Preferences can change.

I don't think anyone making the non-gay argument is a bigot or has problems with the 'label', it's just not the correct label.  My kids have special needs and I feel this issue keenly.  I have no problem with people knowing what my kids' 'labels' because that's how their disabilities are best described.  There are overlapping symptoms between different 'labels' (think ADHD and ASD) that may lead a person to think my child has a different label than the one diagnoses but that would be incorrect.  In the same way, homosexual experience doesn't necessarily indicate sexual preference.  "Gay" describes someone's preference, not their experience.[/quote]
You have a gay BIL. Yeah, sure! :wink:  
Funny how a convenient gay "fill in the black" pops up when you're losing an argument! Okay, back to reality. The very second a man is involved with another man and is sexually mature, he is gay. So teens wacking off together, guys patrolling truck stops on the way home to their wives, whatever, are gay. If you do have a brother in law he needs to be bitch slapped for not standing up for his own![/quote]

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