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[quote=Anonymous]I know that this situation feels like a rejection but it sounds like it wasn’t meant to be. You could have had the baby with or without him if you wanted a baby. If your goal was just marriage, you were with the wrong guy from the start as he told you he didn’t want to remarry. I raised my DSs to support their girlfriends right to choose, so in that situation, my guess is they would say they support whatever decision their partner chooses. Just because he didn’t seem excited by your announcement, doesn’t mean he wanted you to terminate. He may just have been surprised or needed time to think about things. It is entirely possible he had no plans to marry you so this threw him. I really think it’s a terrible idea to get married just because of a pregnancy. You dodged a bullet. My friend has an unplanned pregnancy 21 years ago with a man she was casually dating. He wanted to coparent which was great but eventually they decided to marry because it seemed logical. It has been a very unhappy marriage for her. It was more like a business arrangement.  I would really try to reframe this. [/quote]

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