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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is so sad. They happened to my son. He wanted to stay with his dad for the summer, but the new wife said no - she said “it’s either him or me”. Mind you, he was a good kid. Just wanted more time with dad - he has me and his sisters at home. 
Dad chose new wife. Son hasn’t spoken to his dad for 6 years since then. [/quote]

There is clearly more to the story.  How did you and your son treat her?  Was it her house and she paid for it?   How often did he visit or have contact prior!   Was she going to be the primary caretaker and not asked?  [/quote]

Yup.  A lot more to that PPs story.  Such as she is criticizing her ex his new squeeze for not wanting to spend the full summer with the kid, but conveniently omitting that she didn't want to either.  Otherwise she would have suggested some compromise, such as maybe a month, or maybe two weeks in June and two weeks in August.  If the custody agreement said that the mom is responsible for their kid for the summer, then that's what it says.  She finds out that dealing with a teenage boy who is not in school isn't a piece of cake so drums it into the kids head that he needs to sie d the summer with Dad.  Just like she encouraged the parental alienation.  If there was no custody agreement then no, the father is not obligated to take a teenaged boy off your hands for an entire summer.  I note you did nothing to encourage your daughters to spend any summer time with their Dad.  Why not? [/quote]

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