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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody. [/quote]

That’s nice, sweetie. You did you. Or them. Whatevs.

There is NO WAY I’d date a guy who does other guys. Ewww no.[/quote]

Its interesting. Men are more likely to be okay with dating a current or former bi woman, but women are not. Why is that? Can some women explain why.[/quote]

I think it’s that we know the degrading and disgusting things these gay men do to each other (or want to do to each other) which is such a turn-off.  I mean, just, ewww! [/quote]

Isn’t most of it the same stuff we do with men or want to do with men? [/quote]

No, it's obviously not. [b]Lots of women[/b] view "A" as taboo and unacceptable for them. It's the main way gay men have sex. It's also inherently riskier in terms of STDs whereas lesbian sex is less risky than hetero sex in that respect.[/quote]

Where are you getting this "statistic"? [b]Ass, both in a penetrative sense and in an eating sense, isn't nearly as "taboo" as you're trying to make it, [/b]and plenty of women enjoy this (including gay women, which might surprise you). It's also not "the main way" gay men have sex, just A way.

You might have a minor argument re: STI risks, but most people old enough to have anal sex are aware of this and can choose to take precautions. All sex carries some risk, and the difference here isn't the major dealbreaker you're trying to make it out be.[/quote]

NP. Um, yes it is. [/quote]

"Girls" over a decade ago says otherwise, but go off.[/quote]

It is wild you are using an intentionally provocative HBO show about young women in NYC as a reflection of general sexual attitudes. Do you think sibling incest is actually fine now because of Game of Thrones?

These shows includes sex like this BECAUSE it's taboo -- it makes headlines and gets people talking specifically because people find it shocking. You would also likely be surprised to discover how few people have actually even seen the show Girls, much less the episode you are talking about.

So, not to shame anyone for their kinks (I'm very live and let live in terms of what consenting adults want to do behind closed doors) but the vast majority of women have ZERO interest in anal sex, continue to find it taboo, and are not interested in a relationship with someone who wants it.[/quote]

PP's point seems to be that, whatever the intention, this topic made it into mainstream discourse quite some time ago. Younger generations aren't as uptight about this supposed taboo as you seem to be.

It's fine to like what you like and dislike what you don't. You don't need to create some unsubstantiated "statistics" about "the vast majority of women" to back your point. And to the extent that surveys have been done, the pp is correct: anal/assplay isn't the taboo it used to be.

Sorry you're upset by that. [/quote]

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