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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I stayed 25 years. There were good times and bad times and I sucked it up thinking it was better than what he would do to me if I left. When I finally left I can only say I’m glad I “stayed for the kids”. [b]I now see what he’s capable of and it’s terrible. He would have hurt the kids just to hurt me.[/b] He’s doing it now but at least they are adults and can get away. [/quote] This is what I think will happen if I leave. My kids are 4 and 6, and one has special needs. At some point he may choose to leave/file, but it feels like I need to do everything I can to be with my kids everyday, which means staying and trying to make things palatable to him. Exhausting and stressful in every way. [/quote]
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