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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-husband did this and admitted to me after the divorce was finalized.  He was at a well-known boutique IP law firm.

[b]She was [/b]younger, but looked old, and had 50-60 pounds on me…[b]and not in the same social class at all.  [/b]

He was an insecure man who used his power dynamic to have “sexual transactions”.  He said he didn’t know who he was and eventually broke it off.

Absolutely destroyed his life over being delusional… so yes, it happens.  Cut your loses on someone like that though.  They are dumber than a box of rocks and shouldn’t be practicing law.  [/quote]

Oh, well ...yuck. She most have been gross. I mean ... ewwwww ... a paralegal. So low compared to a wife.

Lol. Ok. Can't imagine why your DH wanted someone else... doesn't sound like he was at all delusional. [/quote]

Different poster- you’re an ass
Any person who knowingly cheats, has an affair and breaks up a family IS Trash, low class, immoral, ugly soul. 
Adultery is a horrible sin that used to be punished by death. Do not victim blame[/quote]

You completely missed the point. [/quote]

What is your point?  Please let me know.  I was a super trophy wife plus had a career, while also being ultra supportive of his dreams.  I’m 115lbs, ultra fit, took care of myself and the house to a tee.  And this woman was the overweight sloppy drunk at the Christmas party that he made fun of on the way home.  He had a mid-life crisis and needed his ego stroked because he had a fragile sense of self. and the first thing he said was that he felt insecure as a man.  This is what you run from ladies.  Sometimes you are on the wrong life path and the trash takes itself out.  I didn’t do anything wrong.  I’m the cool wife that drinks whisky with the guys, talks about cars/planes/boats, golfs, and awesome skier and snowboarder, scuba dive.  And I have all the family money too so he don’t have to work slave firm hours.  I’m not some lame housewife you go cheat on.  He was the dork attorney that was insecure.  Period. You have no point.

All of my new men are better! Amen![/quote]

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