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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1/3 luck
1/3 being nice, cute, smart yourself
1/3 knowing what a good guy looks like, either because you had a great dad or you just figured it out along the way [/quote]

I think it's more than 50% knowing what a good guy looks like and snapping him up. The women I know who are married to amazing men are just so good at this. They are nice and smart and some are cut too, I don't think luck had a lot to do with it.[/quote]

Agreed. Sure there is some luck, but I think knowing what you want from a young age and snapping up that man is important. I married one of those guys that is an all around amazing man (makes good money, is very attractive, wonderful dad, boy scout leader, sports coach, can fix anything in our home, perfect husband). I've spent a while trying to figure out how I got so lucky and I just think I had timing on my side. I met him in undergrad and immediately thought he walked on water. I'm a great wife, but I definitely married up.

That being said, I've known a lot of men who thought they were too young for marriage and they didn't snap up the good women they dated. I have quite a few guy friends with a lot of regret. My own DH even wished we'd met later in life because he wanted to solely focus on his career in his 20s. Life doesn't work like that though. You get one shot and you have to take it. Good people don't come around nonstop and are hard to find. [/quote]

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