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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he have at least $100m? If so, is it tied up in trusts, promised to other people in his MSA, and is he going to make you sign a prenup? It's probably a terrible idea, but if he's uber rich and generous, maybe some people on here could see the appeal.  [/quote]

I would be concerned about this woman’s morals and ethics as she potentially sacrifices her kids healthy and happy childhood and adulthood for money.
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Sure, but if he's Bruce Willis rich, at least she could afford to care for him in their second home when he becomes sick and dangerous to their kids; if he's only mid-level lawyer rich, and he has kids from a previous marriage with child support obligations, college obligations, and other obligations from his divorce, then her and her children's life will be much worse than Emma's life.  I wouldn't trade places with Emma, but at least she's not also broke.  Imagine having to work full time to cover your husband's medical costs and raise your teenagers in the same house as their father with dementia. That would be miserable. [/quote]

I actually know this exact scenario. My own marriage to an 11 years older exH was miserable socially. He didn’t want to travel as family, most our holidays were spent with his old friends, they all resented me and after divorce none of former couple friends stayed in my social network so I had to rebuild it anew [/quote]

I'm sorry.  At least you got out and you get a fresh start.  I hope you find friends your age to enjoy the rest of your life with![/quote]

Yes, my life now post divorce is 100 times better and more interesting than married life. My exH has become really angry and grumpy . Happy not to have that burden on me anymore 
(and I wasn’t the one who was the reason for divorce, I had to divorce him for me and my child simply survive). [/quote]

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