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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a "you" problem.

You are insecure, OP. And probably making people dislike you. Figure out your own issues. [/quote]

Op here. I am insecure sometimes! I think it's normal and that no one is 100% confident at all times. I don't think people universally dislike me and do have friends. And I've been in therapy for years and am always "working on my own issues." I think I'm actually above average in being aware of my own BS and working towards sorting it out.

None of that changes that I just don't really like people with this personality type and would like more opportunities to spend time with other people without being around people like this, who yes, do tend to flare my existing insecurities.

But thank you for your input.[/quote]

DP.

These women are insecure too which is why the try to control everything. And others don't call them out because they are grateful for all the work/organizing these Queen Bees do. So it becomes a cycle.

I have a family member who is like this. She is one of my favorite people now, but I couldn't be in the same room with her for years. She has good intentions with anxiety. A friend of hers calmed her down by challenging her everytime she caused a scene when things were not exactly as she wanted them to be. But that friend only got her respect because the friend was able to "create order" without the drama and terror. If anyone else tried to challenge her, she'd point out that they were relaxed because it was so much easier to be undisciplined and unprinicipled. Once she found someone who took charge like she did but remained calm, respectful and kind, she got it and adjusted her behavior.[/quote]

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