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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Change you expectations or just get a divorce[/quote]

OP here. Meaning accept I am solely responsible for the mental load?[/quote]

Yes your mental load is your responsibility.  [/quote]

So my husband has absolutely no responsibility to make sure his kids receive gifts from Santa, there is a Christmas tree and groceries to eat on the 25th?

You’re suggesting this should all be on me?[/quote]

Your husbands mental load is his responsibility.

If your mental loads are at capacity, [b]prioritize the groceries[/b].[/quote]

Why am I expected to be in charge of the groceries…why can’t he be?[/quote]

I'm not sure this helps you, but DH has weaponized incompetence and our child would probably die or definitely not thrive under his care. So I buy groceries and cook good meals for me and DS, but because DH refuses to participate, he goes to KFC. His choice.[/quote]

He probably did this after being henpecked and criticized on earlier attempts to take initiative. [/quote]

Eww. Victimese. Men are responsible for their choice and actions. Weaponizing incompetence because you received negative feedback is a weakass way to live, regardless of gender, and a whole ass choice about who and how you're willing to be. No excuses.[/quote]

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