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[quote=Anonymous]First, I like the reframe on page 1, and feel it too now that our kids are college-aged. I always know what's going on with them and they come to me. When DH doesn't know some detail (and he's a great father) I do relish how awesome I am for building my relationships with the kids. Second, there is a control issue that's hard to break with women. DH has been doing a task lately that would definitely be considered feminine. It bugs me the way he does it, and I thought about saying something, but then I thought it would be foolish because he might stop doing it and then I'd have to. Third, why aren't people creating systems. It makes life and work SO much easier. For holiday planning, sit down with a list and delegate between the two. Do the same thing every year. You shouldn't just do laundry or shopping when needed--that's a recipe for disaster. Write on your calendar when the shopping and laundry happens. Do it the same day/time every week. [/quote]
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