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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am dating my recent gf of 6 months and she is 42. Overall, talks a big game that she is a feminist and women's rights etc but never go 50-50 on anything. I am very liberal and progressive and agree with most of the things she says about women etc but don't understand why her walk is different than her talk. I like her and have no problem spending $s as I make a lot more than her but she sometime acts like an entitled person and wants man to take care of her like in traditional setting. Not only her, but she is also teaching her young daughter to not go 50-50 on anything with her bf and counts a small thing such as driving to see him for 50 miles as enough contribution that he should take care of all the expenses for the weekend such as hotel, food, going out for drinks, etc. Is she really a feminist if her beliefs and values are in such a way that she can't even afford her own self? [/quote]

You're dating someone with a child. Where is the father? [/quote]

Op here. Her kids are older and in college or recently out of it. Kids father is around and have a good relationship with the daughters but my gf likes to get extra involved and run quickly to help her grown kids and expects me to support unnecessary demands which I refuse. She constantly tracks their location and gets very obsessive with what they are doing. On top of her expecting financial support, she gets very pushy with her demands and looks like it is time for me to break-up with her. This is not what I expected in my relationship with her and I am going to end it before I get more resentful or it becomes toxic. [/quote]

Op, it is time to end if you are already seeing red flags. She is a gold-digger and that too bad kind. lol[/quote]

From what he described it’s unclear if she’s actually asking money for her daughters from OP . It seems as if he’s just not satisfied with her spending a lot of time with them. And with her not splitting things 50/50, which is totally unreasonable given their disparity in income 
But OP should absolutely be upfront about wanting 50/50 on everything with the next  woman he meets. [/quote]

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