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[quote=Anonymous]So I am 54. I have always been baby faced and it’s benefiting me now, or so I am told. I am too heavy, although not really fat — I am broad shouldered with 48” shoulders and 36” waist, so I am not thin. My full head hair is more grey than not, and I let it be so. I recently started taking better care of my skin, so I don’t really show that. I am physically active and 25 years of cycling and umpiring make my lower half rock solid (I do maybe a thousand squats a weekend during tournaments, so my quads and calves are like tree trunks).

I told the PT tech I was 54 the other day and he goes, “you don’t look it, dude.” I was legit surprised because I think I *do* look it. But I will take the compliment.

I am not trying to impress anyone. I just got remarried. I’d like to be around another 30-40 years to be her husband and see my kids marry and have families of their own.

I do make an effort to dress well now, something I didn’t do when I was younger (and poorer!). Covid did that to me — I got so sick of living in joggers and pyjamas and sweat pants, so I have steadily built a real wardrobe and invested in quality pieces. I think this projects confidence is when I go out with my wife. She also puts more effort into looking good for our outings; it’s a virtuous cycle.

So, it can be done. I think. Like I said, I think I am old AF. But, apparently some people believe I look a decade younger. So, who knows? I do think I look better now than I did in my mid-40s…[/quote]

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